I found out my fiance cheated during her bachelor at party and I'm planning on leaving.

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I don't know how to explain any of this. I was basically snooping around last night when I saw

her phone go off. It was a message from her friends about the party. I stayed up like one of those

stalkers you see on TV and I've been checking the computer, her Facebook messages,

with her friends and found out that she cheated during her bachelor at party. By cheating,

I don't mean getting a strip tease or something, which I would be okay with,

I understand it's a bachelor at party, but she actually gave a stripper a BJ and ended up going

home with another guy that night. She has this other guy added on Facebook, but the chat merely

consists of a message that says, had a good time and it was nice to meet you. The date goes back

to the night of the bachelor at party. I have however read the messages between her and her friends,

they have a small group and I found out what she'd done there. It all seems as if it was a one-time

thing that happened, but I am a mess. I haven't slept all night and she is headed for work in an

hour, so when she wakes up, it's almost 6am here, I don't know what to do. We were supposed to get

married in three weeks. I'm thinking of simply packing all of my bags after she goes to work and

just leaving the flat. It's her family's flat anyway. We were planning on buying a house together,

having kids and growing old. I feel like I want to throw all of that out the window. I am sitting

here smelling like liquor, feeling sloshed and depressed. I don't know why, but I'm more of an

angry depressed than a sad depressed. I haven't cried since I found out about all of this.

Should I confront her? Should I just get out? Should I hear her side of the story? Honestly,

I just want to stomp her out right now, but I don't want to do something irrational. Please,

help. A mini update to this says, I think I have my mindset on leaving. I will probably do so

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