My Fiancé Won't Give Me Access To Any Of Our Money

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🗓️ 19 February 2026

⏱️ 127 minutes

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0:14.1	Normal is broke and common sense is weird. So we're here to help you transform your life.
0:20.3	From the Fairwinds Credit Union
0:21.7	studio in the Ramsey Network, this is the Ramsey Show. We are here to help you. I'm joined by
0:27.1	Rachel Cruz. I'm George Camel. Open phone lines at AAA 825-5-225. Jennifer is going to kick us off
0:35.4	in Colorado Springs. What's going on, Jennifer?
0:38.5	Hi, I was calling because I wanted to know how I can save money or make money as a stay-at-home mom who has no access to money.
0:50.2	My fiance is the one that is in charge of all the financial aspects of our lives.
0:56.0	And anytime I need any type of money, I have to ask for it.
1:00.5	So that's my question.
1:02.3	How can I make or save money without any other form of accessing money?
1:08.0	I don't think that is the solution to this problem.
1:13.0	And you know that too. This is a Band-Aid that you have to go make money. I don't think that is the solution to this problem. And you know that too. This is a band-aid that you have to go make money as a stay-at-home mother because he doesn't give you any
1:18.1	access. How long has this been going on? It's always been on and off since I became a stay-at-home mom
1:25.3	six years ago. Six years?
1:28.4	Yes.
1:29.7	Goodness gracious.
1:31.0	Okay.
1:35.8	Uh, when you say he controls the finances, you have no access to the bank accounts.
1:38.1	No, not none whatsoever.
1:44.1	If I need money for groceries, for the kids, for myself, um, then I have to ask for it.
1:47.3	And it has to be the exact amount that I'm spending.
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