Am I the jerk for calling the police on my fiancé?

My fiancé, 28, and me, 30, have been together for three years.

I used to live close to work and used public transportation.

But after I moved into his house, which is hours away from work, I brought myself a car,

since I'm a nurse, and also, since there aren't any hospitals close to where we live, that I could transfer to.

My fiancé's car hasn't been working for close to two months now.

It requires so much money to get it fixed, and he refused my financial help when I offered it.

He used to work for a friend's family, but stopped after his car broke down.

He said he had never let me fix his problems for him, and I stopped

offering help, seeing as he was against it. Instead, he'd asked to use my car every now and then,

and I agreed as long as it's not when I'm working, and also, since he only uses it to trips for

the supermarkets. We've had to talk before about him drinking and driving. I never agree on him

doing that because of how

reckless he can be on the road. And also any responsibility would fall on me as the car owner should he get

into an accident or hit someone. On New Year's Eve, he told me he wanted to use my car to go hang out

with his friends and celebrate. But I declined because I had to cover a night shift and needed my car to travel to work.

He insisted and even suggested that I take the night off or swap shifts with another nurse.

But I couldn't do that last minute. When he kept disrespecting my job, this was me being fed

up because I've done my best to support him and even uprooted my life and moved away just so

that he could be

happy, but in return all I saw was disrespect towards me. He had seen how much trouble I got into

just by moving away from my work and having to reschedule my shifts, but he still thinks I work

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