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So my dear fiancé has some very frugal tendencies that border on being cheap.

And I'm wondering if this means we are incompatible or if it should cause me to reassess our relationship.

Oh, man.

Okay. So give me a couple of examples of what you consider

cheap. Or gosh, okay. Borderline crazy. Or borderline crazy. Okay. So it can be something small. Like if I

call him to say like, hey, can you pick up some avocados on the way home? I can hear him like

his brain is short-circuiting on the other end

trying to think of like the cheapest grocery store to get avocados. So it could be something small

like that or just bigger stuff like paying for dates and groceries. And so yeah.

You mean he wants you to pay for dates?

Yes.

I should probably give you a little more context, though.

So he and I are engaged, and we are living together.

Please don't yell at me, Dave.

And we also have a two-year-old son together.

So we've gone through a lot in our relationship. Um, early on, yes, he, he still pays for dates. I want to give him a stay. Well, he's not a, he's not a date anymore. He's a shack up. So it's a completely different thing. So, um, I mean, he's the father. He's the baby daddy now. I mean, come on. So, yeah. I think it's

too late to decide if you're going to marry the guy. I think you've already decided. You set

your entire life up as if you're married already. Oh, I agree. I think that's probably like

the root cause of some of our fight. I would say that

early on, like one of our disagreements was on living together. I wanted to wait until we were

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