My fiancé and I are having the biggest argument of our lives.

She thinks I'm being tacky, but I think she's overreacting.

I don't know if I'm going crazy or what, but my fiance and I are having a huge argument.

We, I'm a 27-year-old man, she is a 26-year-old woman.

That is actually exactly the same as me and my girlfriend, interestingly, aren't even married yet.

And we've never had an argument like this before in our entire relationship.

I'm very invested in this to see what's going on.

In my home province, engaged couples host a party before their wedding.

People call it different things.

A social or a Jack and Jill or a stag and dough.

The purpose is for the couple to raise money. the couple rent a hall or some other venue people pay an entrance fee and there are raffles and or games

and or a silent auction family and friends of the couple donate the prizes they bring food for a

potluck and alcohol so drinks can be sold at the party. My fiance says, this is the tackiest thing

she's ever heard of and doesn't want us to have one. She refuses. She said it's the height of

rudeness to hold a party where the guests have to pay to attend, donate prizes and money,

and bring the food and alcohol. It's common to invite people to this if you are close to them as friends, but not close enough to invite them to your wedding. But my fiancé almost exploded when she found out. She says there is no way we're having one and we'll have the wedding and honeymoon we can afford. I don't know what her problem is. I've been to a ton of these in my life. Everyone I know who's got unmarried has had one My fiancé said they don't have this in her home province and she's never heard of it before. I don't know if it's common in the province her and I currently live in or not. I went back home to my cousin's stag and dough when my fiance and I had just gotten together, but my fiancé and dough was a joint bachelor bachelor bachelor party now my cousin's wife

was pregnant and this was the second wedding for both of them and i never said anything because i thought my fiance

knew what it was i don't see why she's refusing to have one or is digging in her heels so much my family and

friends keep asking about when we're going to have ours they think it'll be weird to not have one my fiance's family and friends keep asking about when we're going to have ours. They think it'll be

weird to not have one. My fiance's family and friends agree with her. I swear, I've never

argued with anyone about anything so much in my life and it's really starting to get to me.

I think she's overreacting and I'm tired of arguing. This is a really, really tough one because I understand

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