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The Dr. John Delony Show

My Ex Started a New Family and I Am Angry

The Dr. John Delony Show

Ramsey Network

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Relationships

4.85.9K Ratings

🗓️ 24 July 2023

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

On today’s show, we hear about: A woman struggling with her ex-husband starting a new family A man wondering if he should cut ties with his parents A woman whose boyfriend doesn’t want to combine finances if they get married Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show. Support Our Sponsors: BetterHelp DreamCloud Hallow Thorne Add products to your cart create an account at checkout Receive 25% off ALL orders Resources: Own Your Past, Change Your Future Questions for Humans Conversation Cards Redefining Anxiety Quick Read John’s Free Guided Meditation Listen to all The Ramsey Network podcasts anytime, anywhere in our app. Download at: https://apple.co/3eN8jNq These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. https://www.megaphone.fm/adchoices Ramsey Solutions Privacy Policy

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0:00.0

I want to know how to stop taking my resentfulness out on my kids for their dad leaving and getting a new family.

0:16.0

It's mostly I just get super frustrated because I'm doing everything on my own and I just yell at them a lot.

0:24.0

What in the world is going on? This is John with the Dr. John Deloni Show. Show about your mental health, your marriage. Here's the goal to show.

0:40.0

The goal to show is to take the nonsense that's out there in the world on mental health and marriage tips and how to raise your kids.

0:48.0

There's so much garbage and there's so much nonsense. My goal here is to take all of the complex science, all of the just generations of nonsense.

1:02.0

It's brought us to this moment where everything around us appears to be on fire and to cut through all the nonsense in a simple and direct way.

1:10.0

My promise is I'm going to sit with you and we're going to figure out what's going on. What's going on with your mental and emotional health, what's going on with boundaries in your home and your relationships, what's going on with your in-laws, what's going on with your spouse, your kids, whatever you want to talk about.

1:24.0

My promise is I'll sit with you. I've been doing this for years and years and years and years and years and years and I may not have all the answers often. I say I don't know.

1:31.0

But my promise is I'm going to tell you the truth and I'll sit with you. I'm going to try to bring some clarity to this chaotic space.

1:39.0

So if you want to be on the show, give me a buzz at 1-844-69-3-3291. It's 1-844-69-3-3-291 or go to johndaloney.com slash ask-a-s-k.

1:51.0

And don't forget for the best supplements on the planet thorn.com slash you slash deloney as THOR in e slash the letter you slash deloney for the sale of the century all the time all the time.

2:05.0

Let's go out to my hometown. The great and powerful Houston, Texas and talk to dear Marie. What's up Marie?

2:13.0

Hi, Dr. John. How are you doing? Partying. How about you? I'm hanging in there. I'm not partying. I lie to you. Hey, so what's happening? What's going on?

2:23.0

So my question is I want to know how to stop taking my resentfulness out on my kids for their dad leaving and getting a new family because I want to grow a healthy relationship with my kids and stop being so frustrated.

2:37.0

How do you take out your resentfulness against your husband on your kid? It's mostly I just get super frustrated because I'm doing everything on my own and I just let them a lot.

2:52.0

So what happened with your husband?

3:01.0

Take your time. Take your time. You're all good, huh?

3:07.0

What happened with your husband? So we we put together about 15 years.

3:13.0

And we we had you know dated for five before getting married and had our first child about five years after getting married and he was getting older and obviously I was getting older or closer to 30 and I had always heard of health concerns.

3:42.0

About having children older. So I approached my husband about possibly having another kid because we already talked about having two to three and that's kind of what we both wanted.

3:54.0

He voice his concerns about money and providing for the kids and I pretty much just ignored his concerns.

4:09.0

And I ended up getting off of my birth control and then getting pregnant with our daughter.

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