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Here it is, the strawberry letter. All right, nephew, thank you. Subject, my ex paid for my grandma's funeral. Dear Stephen Shirley, I am engaged to a man that I work with. We both teach elementary school, and when he transferred to my school, it was love at first sight for me. At the time, I had only been divorced a few

months, and my ex-husband was still pursuing me and trying to work things out. He cheated on me

more than a few times, and when we were married, so I divorced him. He didn't contest anything,

and I got whatever I asked for because he is still in love with me.

I have our family home sitting on three acres and he let me have both our dogs.

I lost respect for him every time I heard a rumor of him cheating and I'm much happier

divorced.

Now fast forward to when I met my fiancé and we became inseparable in no time. My ex-husband

was overbearing and used his money to try to lure me back in. He bought me a range rover last year

for my birthday and I could not tell my fiance this, though the car is still at my ex's house.

When we first got engaged, I was honest with my fiance about my ex's

extravagant gifts, so he wouldn't find out later and be upset. He told me that I do not set

boundaries with my ex because I like the attention. I told him I would do better. Then my grandma

died. She and my ex-husband were very close, so I knew he'd be at the

funeral. My fiancé and I went to her funeral, and as soon as the service came to an end, my

grandfather stood up and thanked my ex-husband for paying for everything. My fiancé was furious,

so we skipped the repast. I tried to control the situation

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