Hey that beautiful people welcome to fan tie the podcast for all those complex

and complicated conversations about the gray areas in our lives.

I'm Trevel Anderson.

And I'm politics and my culture journalist

Jared Hill.

Coming up on the show today, we're talking about

black straight men and the complicated relationship that we have with them right now,

especially their relationship to black women.

I've invited two of my favorite two straight black people, straight black men, to be a part of the

a part of the conversation and I think it's going to be interesting.

We'll have a different perspective.

And I didn't, I just want to say to the people, I didn't invite anybody because I don't have any good straight black men in my community.

But first we're going to go to a tough question.

The tough question comes from me.

Tough questions are questions that are difficult to grapple with because there's really not an easy answer and this is the deal.

I'm single, I'm out here, I'm doing life, socially distant.

You deepen it and doing it. I'm out hereen it and doin it.

I'm not here dipping it and doing it

and I'm to thanks.

And I've noticed that I have a growing fear like as I'm on dating apps or like if I'm going out or just meeting someone online

And I feel really weird to say it, but like I felt it pop up more than once.

What is it?

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