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How Did We Get Here?

My Brother Is Out Of Control

How Did We Get Here?

Sony Music

Health & Fitness, Education, Society & Culture

4.62.9K Ratings

🗓️ 13 October 2020

⏱️ 46 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, we meet Trudy. Trudy fell out with her brother a few years ago and believes mental health issues are the cause. If you have been affected by any of the issues discussed in this episode please see below for information about further support and advice. To find help via talking therapies you can either go to your GP or the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) bacp.co.uk or bps.org.uk - they should be HCPC registered. Other helpful organisations: NHS - www.nhs.uk/conditions/stress-anxiety-depression/mental-health-helplines SAMARITANS - www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan or call 116 123 MIND - www.mind.co.uk NSPCC - www.nspcc.org.uk/keeping-children-safe WELLDOING - www.welldoing.org NICE - www.nice.org.uk/guidance Find the transcript for episode 5 here: https://somethin-else.github.io/transcripts/hdwgh/episode2_5.txt How Did We Get Here? is a Somethin' Else Production. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

Please note, this episode contains some emotional content, including discussion around suicide,

0:12.3

and may not be suitable for all listeners.

0:14.8

It's not my place to get involved in his marriage, at all.

0:19.4

I'm looking back now, I don't know why I did.

0:23.5

Hello, it's me Claudio Incliman, and my wonderful friend Clinical Psychologist Prof.

0:29.8

Tanya Byron, with How Did We Get Here, the podcast that lifts the lid on some of the challenges

0:35.9

people are facing in their lives.

0:38.1

Tanya talks to people in one-to-one sessions while I'm listening in from another room.

0:43.0

In the break and at the end, I asked Tanya a bit about her process, and we explored the

0:47.4

issues that are raised.

0:49.6

This time, we meet Trudy, who is married and has three boys.

0:53.9

She's concerned about her brother, who she says started behaving aggressively towards

0:58.1

her and her family a few years ago.

1:00.6

Trudy is concerned that her brother is suffering with mental health difficulties.

1:05.4

He'd phoned my parents and told them that I told him to go and kill himself.

1:11.8

I'm speechless, I would never, ever say those words to anybody, and so out of character,

1:18.3

it's really, really over the top behaviour from him.

1:23.5

What you're about to hear at the key parts of a one-time, unscripted session with a real

1:28.0

person, we follow up with our guests after the recording, passing on links and contacts,

1:34.0

some of which you will find in the programme notes of this episode.

1:38.8

Let's go and meet Trudy.

1:39.8

Trudy, thank you so much for coming in.

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