Hello? Is this Sarah? It is. How you doing, Sarah? I'm doing okay. How are you doing?

I'm feeling okay as well. Well, Sarah, how can I get you this evening? Is, uh, what's going on with you?

Well, it's a bit of a story, but to summarize, about two years into my relationship with my boyfriend.

He slept with my mother and then I proceeded to continue the relationship

for another five years.

So, and now we're still living together

even though we broke up about two months ago.

Really?

So you guys have been together for seven years total?

Seven years total, yes.

Okay. And what... seven years total yes okay and what did you do

after you first found out that he had slept with your mom

two years in? So immediately I left the house because at the time he was living with me and my parents at my parents house. So I immediately left and I

went and stayed with another family member for about a week.

But he ended up coming there and like profusely apologizing.

And we basically got back together almost immediately.

And what was it that led you to be able to forgive him so fast?

So I wouldn't say that I forgave him.

It was more so that he made me believe that it didn't happen and my mom made me believe that it didn't happen.

And so I thought that okay, maybe it didn't happen, even though I knew that it happened.

But I thought, you know what, we can do this, we can pretend that it didn't happen and then everything can be fine and I thought that that was a good idea so

Also I kind of want to say that I feel that because he was, he was 19 at the time, I feel like it was more so reflecting now. It was more so the

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