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Now today's first story comes from a throwaway account. It has a shorter story but with a longer update as well. So let's dive straight into it. It's titled My 28 female, boyfriend 30

male, keeps hanging out with a girl he has feelings for.

He said he's been trying to get over her since before me, and that he thinks that if he keeps

trying yet to go away.

I told him it doesn't work like that, especially if we've already been dating 10 years,

and he was already trying to drop his feelings for her before he met me.

I feel like he's lying and he truly just wants to keep his connection to her.

He left to go hang out with her at 9 and it's now almost 4 in the morning for me.

He told me it wouldn't come to this and he wouldn't be out of this long.

He doesn't have a phone so if I want to message

him, I basically have to message her. He also refused to let me come along, even though her

and I get along amazingly. She's made it clear she's not interested and already has a girlfriend.

I've started packing my things because he hypothetically asked me what would happen if he didn't

come home tonight before he went out.

I don't feel that there's anything left for me here.

I made it clear that I don't think what he's doing is good for our relationship, but he

went anyway.

All he can ever say is that it's not his intention to hurt me.

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