My boyfriend and I have mismatched needs and it's making me guilty! | Reddit Stories | ft. K’hara McKinney | EP2607
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🗓️ 15 March 2026
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00:00 r/relationship_advice - 20F struggling with mismatched libido + rejection hurting my bf (21M). Stuck having the same conversations and I don’t know what to do anymore.
16:19 r/relationship_advice - Anxious-Avoidant cycle destroying my relationship (3.5 years) - I (22M) slept with the girl I told her(My GF- 21F) "not to worry about". How do I break this pattern?
28:06 r/okstorytime - I DON’T WANT TO TAKE MY PARTNERS FAMILY NAME IN MARRIAGE!
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, this is Carly. |
| 0:01.6 | And this is Dakota, your favorite OK storytime hosts, and we've got some great stories coming up. |
| 0:06.5 | But before that, we have a quick two-minute break from the sponsors that keep the show alive. |
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| 0:15.3 | My boyfriend and I have mismatched libido, and it's making me guilty. |
| 0:20.0 | Oh, snap. I'm 20 female. My boyfriend is 21 |
| 0:23.4 | male. We've been together a bit over a year and our relationship is genuinely really good. We're |
| 0:28.5 | loving, kind to each other, communicate a lot, live together. And I truly find him incredibly |
| 0:34.7 | attractive. This is specifically about our spicy sleep life because we keep having the same conversation and I feel stuck and confused. By the way, this comes from highings and if you want to submit your own stories, go to the R.SlauK.Storytime Suburit. I'm Sophia. I'm Kahara. And I'm Karli. And today we have a very special guest, Kahara McKinney, a therapist who works with individuals, |
| 0:55.4 | couples, and families to improve communication, rebuild intimacy, and strengthen their relationships. |
| 1:00.7 | She has also helped adolescents and adults heal from sexual trauma, guiding them toward healthier, |
| 1:05.7 | more secure connections in the future. Through both therapy and published writing on |
| 1:10.0 | relationship challenges, |
| 1:11.5 | she's passionate about helping people embrace their unique stories and build more meaningful, |
| 1:15.8 | fulfilling lives together. And thank you for being here today. Yeah, thank you for joining. |
| 1:18.7 | Thank you so much for having me. And Kahara's going to help us read some of these stories. |
| 1:23.0 | Yeah. So let's get into it. So OP says, when we first got together, I was very spicy, sleepily forward. I found and still find him insanely attractive. And I've always been loud and proud about that. I'm very affectionate naturally. Touching him, complimenting him, flirting, etc. I also make a big effort to show affection in the way he's told me he likes. |
| 1:45.3 | We met at uni and basically lived together for six months, separate rooms technically, but |
| 1:49.8 | practically always together. I worked from home at the time, so we were around each other a lot, |
| 1:54.7 | and our spicy sleep life was very frequent and spontaneous. A few months in, I went on birth |
| 2:00.5 | control. It completely tanked my libido. |
| 2:04.4 | That's terrifying. Yeah. And really awful. Like, I lost probably 70% of my interest in spicy sleep. |
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