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Hot and Bothered

My Best Friend's Wedding

Hot and Bothered

Not Sorry Productions

Society & Culture, Feminism, Books, Relationships, Arts, Intersectionality

4.81.1K Ratings

🗓️ 21 October 2025

⏱️ 66 minutes

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Summary

It's time for our next mini-series of Hot and Bothered, all about The Wedding Industrial Complex. Vanessa Zoltan and Hannah McGregor meet-up on a Chicago River tour to record this week’s episode of Hot and Bothered, all about My Best Friend's Wedding.


This week we return to our on-going conversation about post-feminism – can a woman in the 90s truly have it all? We finish the episode by calling Zoe Hendon to talk to us about royal wedding dresses.


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0:00.0

We are transitioning to a new mini-series, and we are calling it the Wedding Industrial Complex series.

0:10.0

Movies that don't just have weddings in them, but in which weddings play a major role.

0:16.0

Weddings in marriage are often part of the fabric of rom-cons.

0:20.0

We are choosing movies that put that front and center.

0:24.7

And we are starting in 1997.

0:28.4

In 1997, Julia Roberts was 30 years old and had been starring in rom-coms for a decade.

0:36.1

She had already been in big blockbuster hits, like Mystic Pizza,

0:41.9

which ends at a wedding, steel magnolias, which starts with a wedding, and pretty woman, which I hope

0:48.7

we talk about at some point soon. She had been on the cover of People magazine and at the top of the box office

0:56.0

charts. She was the queen of rom-coms, and with all of that clout behind her, she decided to make

1:04.1

the movie we are discussing today, my best friend's wedding. This is a remarkable choice for the 30-year-old Roberts, because Julianne, the character

1:14.6

she plays in the film, is the bad guy.

1:18.1

America's sweetheart, Julia Roberts, plots, schemes, lies, and manipulates in this fantastic

1:26.2

movie, using all of Roberts's megawatt charm to distract us from

1:32.2

the fact that she is playing the villain. The movie starts with Julianne at dinner with

1:38.6

George, played by a young and gorgeous Rupert Everett. George is Julianne's gay best friend and editor.

1:47.7

Apparently, the 27-year-old Julianne is already a successful food critic,

1:53.0

feared by top chefs and with a book tour behind her.

1:57.5

Julianne is telling George about her straight best friend, Michael.

2:02.2

She and Michael met in college.

2:04.3

They dated for one hot month.

2:07.2

They stayed friends and promised they would marry each other if neither was married by 28.

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