Hey, Hey Waffle gang, I do hope you are well.

My name is Mark and today we're checking out some more relationship stories.

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Well, let's crack on with today's first story, which comes from Monday in Quiet 5873 and says, Am says am i the a hole for ending an almost 30 year relationship

and before we do get into the story i just want to give you a warning that it does contain domestic

abuse and controlling behavior so if you want to skip the story please feel free to do so time stamps are down

in the description

and along the timeline below now let's get started my 43 male bf 42 male have been like brothers

since eighth grade i've been there for pretty much every milestone in he and his family's life

no matter what he was my brother from another mother and we

behaved as such. Over the last 10 or so years, we didn't hang as much. Both have demanding careers,

so any time we got to hang was very much cherished. The last five or six times we were supposed

to hang, he straight up ghosted me. No call, no text, just plain not showing up. I would

often hear from him the day after with an apology, and usually blaming his girlfriend for not

being able to get out of the house. As always, I told him I understood, maybe we'll catch up

next time. So my birthday came up and he offered to go treat me to wings and beer at the sports bar while watching the NCAA tourney.

I took him up on it as it's been almost a year since we've seen each other, even though we live in the same city.

So we made plans to meet up at 5pm.

5.30, no show. 6 p.m. no show. I bet you guys can see where this is going. So I stayed and enjoyed

my wings until the game was done and went home. I told my wife what happened and told her

I'm over the friendship. She said we are too close for me to just throw our brotherhood away.

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