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Seeing Other People

My Anxieties, Can Guys & Girls Be Just Friends, Saying ILY, Maintaining Independence & More. Solo Ep

Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Social Sciences, Science

4.5608 Ratings

🗓️ 17 May 2022

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

I kick off this solo episode by opening up about career growing pains, feeling sad about the dating world, and the pressure I put on myself to succeed. After concluding my vent session, I answer listener questions about when and how to say "I love you," whether or not I think guys and girls can be just friends, how to handle If someone treats you like a boyfriend or girlfriend but won't call you that, maintaining your independence when you start talking to someone new and being newly single when your friends are in relationships. 

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0:00.0

This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation.

0:08.0

Hey guys, it's Alana and welcome back for another episode of seeing other people.

0:13.1

This is not the episode I planned to record today.

0:15.8

I actually had a recording with a huge guest, one of my biggest guests yet.

0:23.8

And I'm kind of getting ghosted right now. And this is a recording that this person's team reached out to me saying that this guy

0:31.1

wanted to come on. And I was like, hell yeah, let's do it. Scheduled recording. I plan. We confirm.

0:38.6

Recording day comes and he just doesn't show up.

0:42.7

And I'm sitting there like, okay, give him a little more time.

0:47.3

All right.

0:47.7

Like 10 minutes goes by.

0:49.0

I'm like, all right.

0:50.2

This is weird.

0:51.0

Maybe he's having trouble getting on to the recording platform.

0:53.6

I send an email and I end up DMing his manager. And I get a response of that he had a family emergency. I'm like, oh my God, like I'm so sorry. I totally understand. I hope everything's all right. Let me know if I can do anything. He's like, that's so nice. No, like, we're so sorry.

1:15.8

We know you have your schedule all plans out. Like let like, we'd love to reschedule for whatever works for you. I'm like, okay, no problem. So we rescheduled for today, which was same day,

1:20.2

same time a week later. And I and like calendar invites like he accepted, manager accepted, all all that and I'm sitting here and it's

1:30.4

five minutes go by well first it was like one minute it's like 301 p.m and I'm like hmm all right I don't

1:37.1

have a good feeling about this usually people really sign on on time for recordings because

1:42.9

recordings end up taking the full hour.

1:46.4

And everyone's usually like super excited for it, whatever.

1:48.7

We want to hit the ground running, get in at the top of the hour.

1:51.7

304, 305.

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