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Hi, how are y'all? Could not be better. What's up?

So, our situation, I have a 23-year-old stepson that's on his second senior year, two more senior years left to go to get a general business degree.

And my husband pays tuition, rent, utilities, truck, everything for him.

So when he does graduate, he has stated that he doesn't want to get a job. He doesn't want to be an adult.

You know, doesn't want to do anything except for basically live off my husband.

Lonnie. Lonnie, Lonnie, Lonnie, why in the world would he want to get a job?

He has it made. He's got the perfect life.

Exactly. Well, that's what I tell my husband. I'm like, why would he? If you're going to pay for everything, I mean... Well, it's not the

paying for everything. Some people are able to bless their kids. That's fine. It's the way in which

that blessing is becoming a curse.

That's what I'm thinking.

There's no accountability with it.

It's an ATM machine with an endless donor.

Yes, and I'm on board with paying for tuition for his school.

I feel like after five years we should stop. And if he needs two more years, because he messed around and lived his best life for a few years, I feel like

that should be on him, that we shouldn't be on the hook, you know, seven years for a general

business bachelor's degree. Hey, Lonnie, your conversation is not with your, you know, seven years for a general business bachelor's degree.

Hey, Lonnie, your conversation is not with your, with this, your stepson.

Your conversation is with your husband.

Yes, and he is not on board.

But here's what, hold on, don't miss what I'm trying to say.

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