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Messy Family Podcast : Catholic Conversations on Marriage and Family

MP 008: Large Families

Messy Family Podcast : Catholic Conversations on Marriage and Family

Mike and Alicia Hernon : Catholic Marriage Parent and Family

Parenting, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Kids & Family

4.9841 Ratings

🗓️ 28 February 2015

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

"For unflagging interest and enjoyment, a household of children, if things go reasonably well, certainly makes all other forms of success and achievement lose their importance by comparison."

- Teddy Roosevelt

Being blessed with a large family is what some couples long for and something that some couples don't even expect! Having ten children, we have a pretty realistic perspective on having more than five kids (which seems medium-sized to us!) There are considerations to being open to having more kids that are deeper than "why not?" There are challenges that parents need to think about because we are co-creators with God. That is not a responsibility to be taken lightly! We know many people who have had an amazing experience growing up in a big family, but there are some people who were deeply scarred because their parents weren't ready for what was coming. Parents can never forget that they have a responsibility to not just give life, but also educate that life as well. We would like to share our experience with you to encourage you to be intentional about planning for what lies ahead if God blesses you with a bunch of kids!

Show Notes:

 

"I guess the reasons against having more children always seemed uninspiring and superficial. What exactly am I missing out on? Money? A few more hours of sleep? A more peaceful meal? More hair? These are nothing compared to what I get from these five monsters who rule my life … each one of them has been a pump of light into my shriveled black heart."
- Jim Gaffigan

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to Messy Parenting, a Catholic conversation on marriage and family.

0:10.5

I'm Mike Hernan.

0:12.0

And I'm Alicia Hernan.

0:13.5

That's right.

0:14.0

We started this podcast through the encouragement or coercion, depending on how you look at it, from family members who really encourage us

0:22.4

to do this.

0:23.4

And this is just a conversation between my wife and I.

0:26.3

We've been married for 21 years.

0:28.0

I have 10 kids, you know, kids ages, you know, from two on to, you know, sophomore in

0:33.8

college.

0:35.4

Mike said that because he forgets how old she is.

0:37.2

Yeah, I'm like counting.

0:38.7

I ran out of fingers after a while.

0:41.2

But we're not experts.

0:42.9

You know, we claim no psychology or even theological background necessarily to do this.

0:49.6

We're simply sharing our experiences, our insights, and with the hope that it might actually start a

0:54.9

conversation between you and your spouse, that you might take these topics and say, I really

0:59.0

disagree with them, but, you know, let's start a conversation about whatever the topic might be.

1:04.0

And today we're talking about large families. So before we start the show, maybe you could

1:09.0

open us with prayer. Absolutely.

1:13.2

Okay, in the name of the Father and the Son of the Holy Spirit.

1:17.4

Lord God, we ask your presence to come with us right now.

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