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XM Triumph 111. Julie, welcome to the program.

Hi, Dr. Laura.

So, I, I've been married 25 years and I have a 24 year old daughter who was I forget my mind is just blown out of the water today I was checking my husband's Apple Watch today and came across a message from a male name and the last message that my husband had sent to this male subject was little

emoji with a kitzy face and I thought well that's kind of odd but okay so I didn't find what I was looking for and I went back to that just out of

curiosity and I'm reading through these messages, these text messages.

Now he deletes all his text messages off his phone.

He didn't think about his Apple watch.

So I was pretty sure that this was a man and he was having an affair with him.

So he comes out of the one room, he looks at me and says, there's something wrong.

And I said, I think so and he goes

what's the matter with you and I said what's going on and he's like I don't know what you're

talking about I said Joe those oh Joe is guy I work with and I said, Joe, oh, Joe is the guy I work with.

And I said, what's going on between you and Joe?

Well, he and I are in the same, you know, marriage-old type problems, whatever,

and we discuss things together.

I said, I think it's more than that, but I think you know that.

And he started to cry.

And so I didn't, I think I have a big heart. I went over and I found him and I said it's okay, it's okay. And he goes, I've been fighting this for 56 years of my life, I and I feel horrible and I always imagined you and I

you know with great kids together having fun and says, and this just happened.

Well, I guess it's been going on for four to six months.

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