Moving Beyond “Fair” to Build a Great Relationship with Nate and Kaley Klemp

Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson

Being Well

Health & Fitness, Education, Self-improvement, Mental Health

4.8 • 2.4K Ratings

🗓️ 21 November 2022

⏱️ 64 minutes

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Summary

These days couples often shoot for 50/50 in their relationships: an even split of responsibilities in the home or at work. But 50/50 often leads to fights over fairness, and this fixation on fairness can be the death of many relationships. On this episode of Being Well, Forrest and Dr. Rick are joined by Nate and Kaley Klemp to explore how we can build fun, fulfilling, and truly equitable relationships. Topics include Nate and Kaley’s early relationship struggles, different models of relationship, breaking out of old patterns, and how we can manage situations where one partner really is contributing significantly more than the other. About our Guests: Kaley Klemp is an executive coach and expert on small-group dynamics, and Nate Klemp is a bestselling author and founding partner at Mindful, one of the world's largest mindfulness media and training companies. Together, they’re the co-authors of The 80/80 Marriage: A New Model for a Happier, Stronger Relationship.

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0:00.0	Hey everyone, welcome to Being Well, I'm Forest Hanson.
0:10.5	If you're new to the podcast, thanks for joining us today.
0:13.3	And if you've listened before, welcome back.
0:15.5	I'm joined today as usual by Dr. Rick Hanson, Rick is a clinical psychologist, best-selling
0:20.7	author, and he's also my dad.
0:22.9	So dad, how are you doing today?
0:24.9	Really well, Forest.
0:25.9	Thank you.
0:26.9	I've already had a good time during our prep before we started recording.
0:31.8	Thank you for putting up with me.
0:33.2	Maybe that's part of the 80-80 relationship that we're going to learn more about.
0:37.3	I love putting up with you, dad.
0:39.0	Putting up with you is one of my favorite things, particularly when you come into the recording
0:43.7	studio, fired out of a cannon.
0:45.4	We're talking about ancient relationships and modes of relating, which may or may not
0:50.0	infiltrate into today's conversation where we are joined by Nate and Kayleigh Clamp.
0:55.5	Kayleigh is an executive coach and expert on small group dynamics, and Nate is a best-selling
1:00.2	author and founding partner at Mindful, which is one of the world's largest mindfulness
1:04.6	media and training companies.
1:06.6	And together, as you said, they're the co-authors of the 80-80 marriage, a new model for a happier,
1:12.7	stronger relationship.
1:14.8	Before we get started with Nate and Kayleigh, just a couple of quick reminders.
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