My mother-on-law completely slanders me and goes for the nuclear option and this is what happened.

So my husband is military and getting ready to deploy. We got an offer from his mom to take

care of our dog while he was deployed so I could still work and not have to worry about the dog being

alone as he was only three months old at that time. We thanked her and told her the dates he was

going to be gone, which was early November to beginning of January. We told her she didn't have to

do this but we were extremely thankful. My mother-on-law is doing ketamine treatments for a major

depressive disorder, anxiety and bipolar and isn't supposed to be traveling for several days

afterwards. She took it upon herself to leave immediately after one. She insisted on coming down

six weeks early even though we told her we could bring the dog to her. She told us no she needed

the trip. We say okay and she starts driving. She lives four states away. She gets here and

immediately starts criticizing us. One of my best friends is a veterinarian and has been training

dogs for most of her adult life so I go to her for advice where my own knowledge fails. The first day

my mother-on-law was here she brought a self-feeder and a waterer. Both of the extra-large four

gallon ones. She bought him a giant cong toy that was bigger than his head and filled it with peanut

butter. Something we told her we weren't giving him yet since both his parents are allergic.

He chipped a tooth on that toy because it's rated for adult aggressive breeds not baby huskies.

She said she bought him all that stuff because the dog girl at Petco recommended it for him.

Both bowls are bigger than him and adult human doesn't need four gallons a day and a puppy will

just eat and drink until they're sick. They normally don't know any better but regardless

she filled both while we were at work and gave him free reign of the house. Normally we have the

dog gates up so he doesn't destroy everything. She took everything down gave him more than his

weight and food and water. We came home to a torn-up house pee poop and vomit everywhere. When we

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