My entitled mother-in-law keeps asking me about my inheritance that I'm getting for my dead

grandparents, constantly pestering me and going behind my back to try and find out how much money

I'm getting. And at this point, I feel like I'm going crazy because right now I really don't know

what to do. Here's what happened. Okay, so my grandparents recently passed away 10 months ago.

They were extremely hard workers and ended up having a decent amount of

money to leave to the family. I was extremely close with them, so their passing really impacted me.

For context on the will, I'm getting a nice gift of money from them, but it's nowhere by any

means life-changing. But regardless, I just don't see it as my mother-law's business. My mother-law is

the sort of person that when talking

about someone will always refer to their wealth. She is obsessed with what people have. She has a real

victim mentality. So often she'll say, oh, I wish I had this. How lucky is she? She also is a

massive bragger and a name dropper. For example, my sister-law was dating a wealthy man,

and it was all my mother-in-law

would ever talk about. She didn't even refer to him by his name. I used to have a good relationship

with her, but she has said some very hurtful things, so now I really struggle with her and find

interacting with her really painful. She lives out of town, but has been back to visit five times

since my grandparents passed away.

And while the will is being dealt with, every time without fail, she asks me, oh honey, how is everything going with your grandparents' will?

Or she'll ask me, is your family selling your grandfather's house and business?

I try to keep my answers to one word and roll into another conversation, but she is getting more persistent.

I know she is pretty open

about her finances with her family, but my family isn't like that. Most recently, she directly asked

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