Mother-Daughter Relationships with Sandra Stanley and Allie Stanley Cooney
Pardon the Mess with Scarlet Hiltibidal - Christian Motherhood, Biblical Parenting, Raising Christian Kids
Scarlet Hiltibidal and Christian Parenting
4.9 • 850 Ratings
🗓️ 29 August 2024
⏱️ 37 minutes
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Summary
The mother-daughter relationship can be the most special bond out there. However, it can also be tough in many seasons. The mother-daughter duo of Sandra Stanley and Allie Stanley Cooney are on the podcast today to give us very practical tips on ways to build, maintain and strengthen our relationships with our daughters.
As we think about the mother-daughter relationship, we can often jump to the things we need to add to our plate. We feel guilty that we aren’t doing enough. Sandra shares that we may need to actually eliminate things. We may need to limit what we do - to make room for this important relationship.
As a mom of daughters, I absolutely loved this chat and it gave me so many great ideas I can still implement in my own home. However, if you have sons, you will still gain some great thoughts on connecting with all of your children.
My favorite part of the episode is when Allie shares about her college experience and how she made her faith her own. Her insight was really helpful to me about our kids finding their identity and how they can change from “I have to love Jesus” to “I want to love Jesus.” So many powerful moments from two of my favorite people.
In this episode:
- Creating a safe and loving environment for daughters
- How to pass on an authentic faith
- How to show interest in your child’s life
Enjoy!
Courtney
00:00
Introduction and Mother-Daughter Similarities
03:50
Creating a Safe and Loving Environment for Daughters
07:16
Passing on Faith: Modeling and Encouraging a Personal Relationship with God
16:14
Modeling Authentic Faith
18:36
Personal Faith Journey
22:11
Staying Stable in Parenting
24:12
Being Available and Humble
28:30
Showing Interest in Your Child's Life
30:23
Adjusting Parenting Approaches
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Resources from today’s show:
Allie Stanley Instagram
Meet Me In The Middle - their new book
I Said This, You Heard That - temperament book
Parenting book by Andy and Sandra Stanley
Allie & Courtney - previous podcast episode
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Christian Parenting. |
| 0:08.0 | Welcome to Pardon the Miss. |
| 0:09.4 | I'm your host, Courtney DeFaio, and on this podcast, we talk about raising kids as Christian parents. |
| 0:14.2 | It's so very important for me to honor God with my family and the two kids that he's given me. |
| 0:18.6 | But honestly, it's not always neat or easy or tidy, |
| 0:22.0 | but it's always worth it. So join us every week to laugh and learn together on this beautiful |
| 0:26.2 | and messy journey of parenting. |
| 0:44.8 | Okay, friends, I'm excited about today. We've got my friends Allie Stanley, Ali Stanley Cooney, and Sandra Stanley. They are part of the Stanley family, obviously. Andy was my pastor |
| 0:50.6 | when we were in Atlanta, and I just respect and admire all of them so much. But today |
| 0:55.1 | we're talking about a mother-daughter relationship. And some of you are like, that is hard. It is |
| 1:00.4 | awful, depending on the stage that you're in. And some of you are skipping along, holding hands |
| 1:04.3 | like best friends. But it's hard at different seasons. And it's really, really important. And as they |
| 1:08.6 | share today, that relationship isn't just a cute |
| 1:11.2 | Instagram pick. It can inform their faith. It can be their safe place. It can be the place that |
| 1:16.4 | they go to, their relationship with their mom when things are hardest. And that's what we want |
| 1:21.0 | for our kids is we don't just want to be best friends. We want them to have a place. They can come |
| 1:25.8 | and talk about the hardest things of lives. |
| 1:31.6 | And so I love this chat today, very practical things that they share about. It's coming from their book, Meet Me in the Middle, that just came out this week. And I hope we all go check that |
| 1:35.8 | out. And also, make sure you've got your parenting journal that we've put together with the team |
| 1:40.9 | over a Christian parenting. So it's a journal that anybody can do as they pray |
| 1:45.4 | through the school year for their kids specifically. And you can get that at cpgiv.org. It is called |
| 1:50.5 | a life of faith. So the focus this year as we're praying for our kids in this journal is going |
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