Do you remember these? Yes. You wrote this roughly around the same time in 92.

Roughly enough, I saw the date on the top and thought, I was a few days after my birthday.

And again, you put fatherhood number one, but there's a series of other things on this list of your

10 goals in life, which you wrote in 1992. As you reflect on those goals, do you wish you hadn't written any of them? And is there anything else you wish you had written? No, I wouldn't change a thing about it. Ten goals in life. Become a father. Find and keep a woman for me, keep my relationship with God,

chase my best self, be an egotistical utilitarian.

Take more risks, stay close to mom and family, win an Oscar for best actor, look back and enjoy the view.

Just keep living.

I don't know what I'd add to that.

One of the things that you've talked a few times about is this idea of like needing resistance.

Yeah.

You've said it two or three times.

And we're going back to what it is to be a man and what it is to be a well-orientated stable man.

Needing resistance.

Is that a goal to aim for? Is that? I think it's just a necessary necessity for having more than just an individual life, the top of the high rise with money, if you're successful to do that.

I mean, I'm supposing that whether it's different words, your friend went to Christianity

for a very similar reason.

It's like a certain amount of guilt's very healthy.

It helps us, keeps us, it's boundaries. It's like a certain amount of guilt is very healthy.

It helps us, keeps us, it's boundaries.

Boundaries. Without any shame, without any embarrassment, without any guilt, tell me it's all just four

dimensional.

Where's the form?

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