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Slack.com slash DHQ. So today we're going to go back to the Reddit relationship forum

and answer some more questions from some more hopelessly clueless people looking for

relationship guidance on Reddit. And look, you guys know I'm coming at this from the

perspective of a married man 10 years in four kids. So, you know, I think I'm pretty realistic

if nothing else. My advice may not be comforting, may not be polite, it may not be correct. But

I'm going to give it to you straight. So, let's take a look. First question. I feel

like my girlfriend is cheating on me and messaging other guys on Instagram. Does anyone

know how I can get into her account since she doesn't give me her phone and changes the

topic every time? By the way, there are no periods or any punctuation at all in that

whole question. Anyway, is your girlfriend cheating on you? Probably. Yes, you probably

is. I mean, chances are pretty good. Look, it's not her responsibility to hand her

phone over to you in the first place. You should not your child. But if you're noticing

some weird secrecy around phones and messaging and that sort of thing, 99% chance that it's

exactly what you think it is. I hate to tell you. So, this is one where I would say probably

best to break up. Probably heading that way anyway, regardless of the cheating or the

potential cheating. So, I would simply break up. Okay. Next question. So, I've been on

three dates with this girl and we're really clicking and I really like her and she just

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