More Crying Together (2021 Rerun)
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
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🗓️ 13 July 2024
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December 1, 2021
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| 0:00.0 | So Bob I have a bunch of emails here and let's answer him. What do you say Bob? |
| 0:05.0 | That's answer him. |
| 0:06.2 | Anonymous patron they write in and say, |
| 0:10.0 | disorganized attachment is it equivalent to freeze as in fight or flight freeze or a piece |
| 0:17.4 | It occurred to me that other people may experience my preoccupied attachment style as fight, |
| 0:23.0 | avoidant as flight, and by implication disorganize this freeze. |
| 0:28.0 | I say this, completely recognizing Bob's idea of being caught between bases at risk of being tagged. |
| 0:36.4 | Did you use that analogy before Bob? |
| 0:38.9 | Maybe, I don't know. |
| 0:40.6 | What do you think that means to you or to them? |
| 0:44.3 | I think it means you don't have a strategy. |
| 0:46.7 | Yeah, tell me more. |
| 0:48.6 | I can't, I don't attack, so I can't run to second. And I I can't go back to first where I guess this |
| 0:57.2 | running away run away so I'm kind of stuck waiting to get tagged in the middle. |
| 1:02.6 | Yeah. |
| 1:03.6 | Well, and what they're saying is, if you run towards second, |
| 1:07.7 | you'll get tagged. |
| 1:08.8 | If you run back to first, you'll get tagged. |
| 1:11.9 | So you just sort of freeze because you're terror you don't know what to do. Yeah. Is that what it feels like? I think that's yeah. Yeah. I remember a time I was standing in my dining room. We were in the middle of I don't even have, some kind of conflict. |
| 1:24.0 | With your wife. |
| 1:25.0 | Yeah, with Colleen, yeah. |
| 1:26.5 | And I was just, felt like, stunned and just looking at the table and sort of aware of everything going on around me and where that I'm completely unresponsive right now and sort of, you know, just checked out emotionally and not quite dissociating in the clinical sense. |
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