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A responsible mother is not one slowly dying for her children, but showing them how to bravely live. I stopped being a martyr

and started being a model. That is on another level. It's so fascinating, right? It's like,

I started figuring that language out. You know, I almost stayed in my broken marriage. I almost,

I fell in love with Abby and then I really almost just abandoned myself again.

Yeah.

Because I was so tamed to believe that a good mother just doesn't ever do anything to hurt her children.

That a good mother, we have this thing that we say without thinking about it because it actually doesn't make any sense that we need to put our children's needs above our own.

Oh, I hate that. Yes.

As if it's a hierarchy, as if our children's needs aren't exactly the same as ours.

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