MOMENT | We all mess up: it’s what we do next that matters with Tom Piccirilli (AKA Dad Vibes)
Motherkind
Zoe Blaskey
4.8 • 863 Ratings
🗓️ 25 September 2023
⏱️ 9 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | When you see content on social media, it seems very exact. |
| 0:07.8 | You know, when your child's struggling with their emotions, you need to become present and responsive. |
| 0:12.3 | But of course, that isn't realistic because as humans, we've got all this other stuff going on, financial pressures, work stresses. |
| 0:23.9 | So, of course, we're going to lose it and snap and shout at our kids, regardless of how calm we are by nature. I think the things that have |
| 0:30.0 | really helped for me are just general awareness of what my child is going through. So setting realistic expectations for his behaviour really helps. |
| 0:41.0 | Not always, because obviously now he's five. A lot of the things that maybe I would use in the |
| 0:46.9 | toddlers when it comes to realistic expectations, it feels like he's making more conscious |
| 0:50.8 | decisions to not listen. And going back to what I said earlier, it feels like I expect more of him at the age of five. |
| 0:57.6 | But naturally, we're going to lose it. |
| 0:59.1 | I lose it. |
| 1:00.3 | I think everyone loses it, regardless of what social media might lead you to believe. |
| 1:06.0 | But I think when you do lose it, there's fantastic opportunities there to teach your child. |
| 1:12.4 | Obviously, you can let them know that you're only human. |
| 1:15.8 | And as human beings, we do make mistakes. |
| 1:18.6 | And as human beings, we can make mistakes and still be okay. |
| 1:21.6 | So it's quite a sense of achievement the first time you apologize to your child |
| 1:27.2 | because I know a lot of parents |
| 1:29.0 | struggle with apologizing to their kid because a lot of people think, you know, they're a kid, |
| 1:33.9 | I don't need to apologize. But of course, if we can apologize and let them know that we're only |
| 1:38.4 | human and then when they say, that's okay, daddy, I know you are frustrated. That feels like a sense of achievement, |
| 1:45.7 | like a parenting win when you reach that. I don't know if you've experienced anything like. |
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