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MOMENT | The Biggest Mistakes I've Made Growing Motherkind

Motherkind

Zoe Blaskey

Kids & Family, Parenting

4.8863 Ratings

🗓️ 17 November 2025

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Summary

There was a time when I thought slowing down meant falling behind. In this short clip, I share one of the biggest lessons I’ve learned about ambition, motherhood and burnout. After years of building Motherkind, growing my family and saying yes to everything, I realised that success means nothing if it costs your wellbeing. I chose this Moment because it’s one so many of us will recognise, that quiet fear that if we pause, everything we’ve worked for might disappear. But I’ve learned that rest doesn’t erase progress. You don’t lose momentum by slowing down; you find yourself again. This reflection is raw and real, about miscarriage, early motherhood, burnout, and how I kept going when I probably should have stopped. My hope is that it helps you feel seen, and maybe even reminds you to give yourself a little more grace in your own busy season. In this Moment, you’ll hear: Why I kept working through one of the hardest seasons of my life The truth about “having it all” and what I wish I’d done differently How fear and scarcity can disguise themselves as drive The mindset shift that finally helped me rest without guilt This Moment is a gentle reminder that your worth isn’t measured by how much you can carry, it’s in how deeply you care and how kindly you treat yourself along the way. If you liked this moment, listen to the full episode: The Work Series: My Biggest Mistakes And Regrets - Zoe’s Story Remember to subscribe to Motherkind — it helps more mothers find the show and keeps our community growing. Ready to feel like yourself again? Download your FREE Matrescence Cheat Sheet Connect with Zoe: Follow Zoe on Instagram  Get Zoe’s Sunday Times bestselling book, 'Motherkind: A New Way to Thrive in a World of Endless Expectations’ This Motherkind episode is sponsored by: Headline sponsor Wild Nutrition, the brand raising the bar for women’s supplements. Want to feel the Food-Grown difference yourself? Get 50% off for three months at wildnutrition.com/motherkind. Ts and Cs apply. For a £100 sponsored job credit, visit Indeed.com/ Motherkind Get 15% off OneSkin with the code MOTHERKIND at https://www.oneskin.co/motherkind Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi everyone, Zoe here. Welcome, welcome. It's Monday, which means it's Motherkind moment day.

0:14.1

These are little snippets of powerful conversations. And today, the guest is me. This is a snippet from our work series back in June, where I

0:23.2

shared my work story with Motherkind. I'll be honest, I really wasn't sure if you'd be interested,

0:29.2

but this is actually one of the most listened to episodes of the year. So in this short clip of that

0:36.3

full episode, I described some really personal

0:39.9

behind the scenes of what was happening as I was growing Motherkind and how I have tried and

0:45.3

often failed to build Motherkind in a way that works for me and our family. So you are going to

0:52.7

love this short moment if you work for yourself or you want to.

0:57.4

I hope you love this little shot of inspiration this morning. Here it is. And make sure to subscribe

1:01.8

so you never miss a Monday moment ever again. 2018 to 2021, I call the brutal years.

1:17.1

They were so beautiful that chapter,

1:19.4

but they were also absolutely brutal.

1:23.3

And the first thing that happened,

1:25.8

a bit of a trigger warning here on miscarriage was that in

1:29.2

2018, I had two miscarriages. It was really, really harrowing, traumatic experience both times.

1:38.5

And I managed to keep the podcast going week in, week out. They really cracked me open. I don't think I gave myself

1:48.0

enough time to grieve properly. And about a year later, I actually went into some specialist

1:51.9

therapy to help me grieve those miscarriages because I realized I just kept going. And I do

1:58.3

remember recording episodes kind of trying to fight back the tears and not really knowing how can I hold space for my community, for others, for my listeners when I'm crumbling behind the scenes.

2:09.7

But what happened was the podcast became my lifeline and my way to stay connected and to keep moving even through and it was the messages from the community

2:21.6

from you guys from our listeners that kept me going and you know what's wild is that I've never

2:27.1

missed a week in eight years and sometimes I think that's incredible other times I think you really

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