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Motherkind

MOMENT | Navigating disappointment in marriage - the fine line

Motherkind

Zoe Blaskey

Kids & Family, Parenting

4.8864 Ratings

🗓️ 6 February 2023

⏱️ 7 minutes

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Summary

This Moment is with the incredible Susanna Abse. Susanna has been a leading couples therapist for 35 years. There is not much Susanna doesn't know about love and relationships. And to support us, she has a new book out called Tell me the truth about love, which is a collection of amazing stories from the therapist's couch. I hope you find this moment supportive, and if you want to catch the full episode, click here.. COME VISIT MOTHERKIND ON INSTAGRAM INSTAGRAM: @zoeblaskey - come engage with Zoe and our community over on Instagram for inspiration, tips, and sometimes a bit of humour to get us through our day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

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0:46.0

How do we tread that line?

0:49.9

You know, I think my generation of mothers, I'm really noticing, are becoming more and more

0:55.5

empowered, more and more aware of their worth and what they deserve. How do you get that line right

1:02.7

between lowering expectations and embracing that disappointment? And then on the other side,

1:10.1

I say, no, actually, I cannot handle

1:13.5

that this marriage now does not feel enough for me. It doesn't feel alive enough for me.

1:18.6

It doesn't feel passionate enough for me. How on earth do you begin to unpack that line so

1:23.1

that you're not settling? You don't have that feeling of the settling as opposed to what you might want,

1:29.1

which is that sort of deeper love or truer love or more vulnerable love.

1:33.4

Do you know what I mean?

1:34.0

I'm not asking the question very succinctly.

1:36.2

No, no, you're quite rightly sort of challenging me about an issue for women of putting up with things that they shouldn't put

1:46.8

up with. That's it. That's what I'm trying to say. Because if we say, well, let's just lower

1:51.6

our expectations. Well, yeah, but what do we deserve as women as mothers? And what are we

1:56.4

modelling? Because all the time, as we talked about the top of the conversation, we're blueprinting for the little eyes that are watching.

2:03.8

It's tricky, isn't it?

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