Tell us about the threat levels, because I think you just touched on it there.

You know, if this doesn't change, this is what's going to happen.

And this is a question that you must get all the time, because I get it too,

which is what if someone doesn't respect my boundary?

So what if Carol, let's stick to poor Carol, what if Carol keeps showing

up, you set the boundary and she goes, yeah, yeah, of course, I'll call whatever. Next week,

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relationship. The green boundary is where you usually start.

It's like, okay, I'm just going to assume that this person didn't know I had a limit. And once I

express it clearly and kindly, they're going to want to meet me in this limit for the good of the

relationship. They care about me. They care about my needs and my feelings. So I'm going to go in

assuming the best and share my green. That would be, hey, Carol, please care about my needs and my feelings. So I'm going to go in assuming the best and

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