Moment 182: How To Make People Respect You In Seconds: Evy Poumpouras

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🗓️ 4 October 2024

⏱️ 12 minutes

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Summary

In this moment, former U.S. Secret Service Special Agent Evy Pompouras discusses how to earn and maintain respect in the workplace. According to Evy, it is important to reflect on your own actions when faced with disrespect. This includes assessing the tone and pitch of your voice to see if any changes could lead to gaining more respect. The same principle applies to self-assessments of your contributions in the workplace, as Evy emphasises that people who speak too much often lose respect in the workplace while those who provide meaningful insight gain in. Evy also recommends addressing signs of disrespect straight away rather than avoiding the situation. Although difficult conversations may be uncomfortable, they can ultimately strengthen relationships and improve future interactions. Listen to the full episode here - Spotify- https://g2ul0.app.link//4lagoaEAoNb Apple - https://g2ul0.app.link/TIVYc9ZjNu Watch the Episodes On Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/c/%20TheDiaryOfACEO/videos Evy: https://www.evypoumpouras.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	You guys know that I absolutely love books and one book that I've read recently that I really want to share with you is called Read Right Own, which is a new book by entrepreneur and investor Chris Dixon,
0:10.4	who I'm happy to say also sponsors this podcast.
0:12.8	Almost everything about our world now is digital.
0:15.1	And what I loved about this book
0:16.9	is that it lays out a new direction for the internet services
0:19.8	we use every single day and explores what's possible when communities reclaim
0:24.2	control over our digital worlds. It explores so many fascinating concepts like what
0:29.2	if social networks could reward people for posting great content.
0:32.6	And what if people, not just tech companies,
0:34.8	had a say in the platforms they rely on?
0:37.0	Read, write, own really articulates a new direction for the internet.
0:40.6	One where people can own platforms that they use every day, which is what I found
0:44.8	so unbelievably interesting. I highly, highly suggest you check it out. Learn more at read-write-owned
0:50.8	com. Read Right Own.com. In those environments, if someone's not, if you feel like your manager or your boss or the
1:01.5	CEO or even like a colleague isn't showing you respect.
1:07.0	And I've read your story so I know that this happened multiple times in your life
1:10.0	where there'd be someone around you that wasn't showing you the respect you deserve.
1:14.6	And I have a lot of people that come up to me and they say I'm struggling because my boss is not
1:17.6	showing me respect or my colleague, this colleague isn't listening to me or all these kinds of things.
1:25.8	Where does your mind default to when I say that?
1:27.9	Like where do you go to in your mind?
1:29.0	What is your like action A?
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