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fire and it's called am i the arseaw for canceling my wedding over the past year and a half my fiance

hosey male 27 and i female 25 have been planning a wedding for july 2021. We've been together for 10 years and

have lived together for three years. Jose and I both don't like the pomp and circumstance of

weddings and we're hoping to have a low-key inexpensive one. My family however wanted something

bigger. My mother has expressed to me just how much she's living through me in having this wedding.

I've expressed to her plenty that social situations trigger my anxiety. She doesn't care.

Jose and I gave in last year and agreed to marry in a church and have the big reception she wanted.

Jose made sure if we're going to do this my parents will pay for both the venue and the church fee.

They agreed.

Planning was stressful and it caused a lot of tension between Jose and I.

It turns out the stress wasn't coming from the planning itself, it was the wedding as a whole.

With my therapist's help, we identified that being a bride embodied many things that mother

berated me for growing up

and acted as triggers for my CPTSD. I came forward with my reservations to my mother.

Her response was to gaslight me about my therapist diagnosis and insist on the wedding

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