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Guilty Balance 556 and says, am I the asshole

for telling my mum if she wants to plan a wedding to get remarried.

I 32 female recently started planning my wedding with my fiancé, 31 female, and my mom

immediately jumped to help his plan.

I thought at first it'd be okay, but she would call

vendors and venue she likes, we'll give them my information so they call me about a schedule time,

and my mum swoops in to say, it'd be rude not to go since they invited you. It was obvious it was

her after the third time when she wouldn't stop giggling and admitted

to calling beforehand and making appointments. I wouldn't take issue with this, but my mom and I

have wildly different tastes. Every time me or my fiancé tell her something like how we want

to have this color for the tablecloths or these flowers, she tells us that they look bad and will give

us her own plan she recently showed us a massive binder of different ideas she wants us to look

through it's exhausting at every step she will insist on looking at her ideas and when we reject

them she threw her fit and tell me i don't love her because I ignore all her wishes.

I also want to add, I think she's had it in her head since I was a kid that she had planned my wedding.

Even before I came out and dated men, she had comment on how excited she was for the wedding.

And when I told her, my fiancé proposed, she immediately started berating me about

when we'd have the wedding so she could help us plan it. Part of it is, is when she married my dad,

it was a small courthouse affair because she was pregnant with me at the time, never got a proper

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