Hey everyone. Welcome to The Curious Girl Diaries podcast. I'm Leila London, aka The Curious Girl. Now just to let you know,

this podcast is not suitable for work. It's also not suitable for anybody under 18.

But the rest of you consenting adults, let's get ready to talk about my sex line,

sex in general, and everything in between, an explicit, raunchy, fun detail.

All right, here we go.

On average, one in three men and one in five women have not had sex in the last year.

So this is particularly pronounced among millennials and Gen Z.

So this goes beyond Americans.

I mean, this is a global phenomenon.

We see this happening in Western countries as well as Eastern countries, basically all developed countries. And as I said, it's pretty much every age group. It's whether you're married or single. Some people are just on there for either to self-soothe or, you know, stress or boredom or whatever, they're not even looking to date. So that's another thing too, because if you are on there genuinely trying to find love or a relationship or something serious like marriage and the other person or other people are just on their treating it like a video game, it's not going to be very productive for you. It's going to be quite frustrating.

I just kind of really started to wonder when I finally did get off there, how many real people are actually on here? Or is it just a bunch of fucking bots?

Americans spend more on only fans than chat GPT and New York Times combined.

Hey everyone.

Welcome to The Curious Girl Diaries podcast. I am Layla. Happy Saturday, guys. All right, today I have ripped another really interesting interview off of YouTube. It's with Dr. Deborah So. And she just came out with

this book called Sex-Stinction. Yes, you heard it. What a great word. Sex-Stinction.

Basically, you guys, I don't know what's going on, but after 10 years of doing this show, apparently, while I came out of my own personal sex-stinction, now the world is going into sex-stinction. What the fuck is happening, you guys? See, I knew it. I've been saying all along how things have changed out in the sexual

marketplace. The dating space has totally changed. Over this past decade, it's been crazy.

And people are more detached. And quite frankly, people are just weirder. I don't know how else to put it.

But I've been talking about this, sensing this, getting turned off by it, you know, along the way,

intermittently here and there. But on some levels, I feel like listening to this woman is validation for what I've

been saying and feeling. But on another hand, I'm really concerned. And it's also kind of fascinating,

too. She brings a lot of data, and you guys know how I love that. So, per my usual,

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