The Stara's first pregnancy was terminated when she was 15 years old.

She didn't understand what was happening.

After three more abortions, she finally learned the truth.

I heard it from focus on the family and they were talking about pro-life being a baby, a human being in your stomach.

And I was like, wow, that's pro life.

Today, Dostara has six children who represent God's love and forgiveness in her life.

And today, Dostara is a pro-life advocate.

So it's focus on the family has definitely sharpened me and I'm looking forward to

continuing to being sharpening. I'm not embarrassed anymore about the choices that I made. I'm wanting to help.

I'm Jim Daly. Working together we can rescue pre-born babies and their moms giving these families hope. Donate at

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It's kind of a sobering truth. Your kids are watching you. They're watching how you

and your spouse treat each other. I'm John Fuller along with my friends and colleagues, and Aaron Smalley they're in charge of our marriage department here and

Aaron you've tried to set an example for your kids because you know they're watching right?

Absolutely I know they're watching right? Oh, absolutely.

I know they're watching.

But yes, it's not always exactly how I would want it to go,

but I see that there's an opportunity that when it even when it doesn't go

exactly poised and perfectly that we have the opportunity to follow up

and go back to what was really going on and how we worked it out because it teaches

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