Mixed Signals, Red Flags and Dating Wins
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 30 March 2026
⏱️ 59 minutes
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On this week's Cohosts for Life episode, we're answering your dating questions and talking through some of the situations that come up when you’re getting to know someone. We get into everything from communication to overthinking to figuring out what actually matters early on. We also share your dating wins, from putting yourself out there to big relationship milestones.
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| 0:00.0 | It really is a shame that we have to figure dinner out every single night for the rest of our lives. I'm telling you, my coworker Amy makes like a schedule on a calendar seven days a week. It's awesome. Okay, so let's make it. I mean, we can pretty much make that for our week this week. We can. We could use the whiteboard. I took the whiteboard back out today, you guys. |
| 0:35.7 | I love it. Let's go. I'm really overwhelmed. I mean, that'd be a good way to do it, actually, just go a whiteboard of food. Yeah, we can do it. I just, there's really nowhere for us to put the whiteboard up. I mean, we could. We definitely could. We have a lot of wall space. There's a lot of space. |
| 0:38.0 | In the kitchen in particular, there's a lot of wall space. |
| 0:38.3 | I know. |
| 0:40.2 | I just feel like it looks so nice. |
| 0:37.9 | And a whiteboard will make it look glass. We definitely could. We have a lot of wall space. There's a lot of space. In the kitchen in particular, there's a lot of wall space. |
| 0:38.3 | I know. |
| 0:52.1 | I just feel like it looks so nice and a whiteboard when we get a little glass nice. But it could be like next to the fridge, honestly. It could be next to the fridge or the window over there, like where you can't even like, no one goes around that corner anyway. No, but I film over there sometimes. So that's the thing. |
| 0:52.9 | I don't want it to ruin. |
| 0:53.9 | It's fair. |
| 0:54.6 | Okay. |
| 0:56.1 | So what are we going to have? |
| 0:57.4 | I don't know. |
| 0:54.3 | I kind of want it to ruin. It's fair. Okay. |
| 0:55.2 | So what are we going to have? |
| 0:57.0 | I don't know. |
| 0:57.5 | I kind of want to cook, but it's so late already if I cook, we won't have dinner until eight at the earliest. I'm not hungry at all. Oh, I'm very hungry. What did you eat for lunch? I had chakshuka, me and Haley split chakshuka and a roasted veggie salad. |
| 1:12.9 | Cool. |
| 1:13.2 | And I had my kachava shake. Cool. Which is so good. Okay. Are we ready to go? Let's do it. All right. Hey guys. It's Alana and. Jake. And. Barkley. Welcome back to another episode of co-host for Life. This is our Monday episode of seeing other... |
| 1:29.1 | You look like you're about to say something. Yeah, it's such a weird intro. Can you just introduce me in the future? I don't like that. This is Alana and... Yeah, we've never done it that way. I feel like we do it that way every single time. Really? Every single time. Oh. Yeah. Okay. |
| 1:43.1 | Yeah, you can just say it's Alana and Jake and do the quick intro. |
| 1:46.1 | Okay. |
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