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crush on someone or let's say some you know there's just somebody you

really like in your life and you decide to make them a mixtape a mixtape or you know a

playlist and you fill it full of all of these songs that are you know they're carefully

selected and calibrated to send them a message something that telegraphs your

feelings hopefully they'll pick up what you're putting down and they'll realize that oh you you're hoping this you know friendship turns into something else

Hazel Sills I know you've done it. I've definitely done it so many times and it's a really delicate balance between me kind of

wanting to show my music taste chops and expertise but then also making sure I'm communicating the right messages.

Right, yeah, I mean that's the thing is like, it also has to show that you're cool, right?

That's the most important part.

It's not just that one song.

You want them to conclude after listening to your mixed tape,

like, oh, I need to date this person.

Yeah, I need to be with this.

This is the person I need to be with.

I've done it too, so many times with, you know, results may vary.

Same. Mylech. No shame. Mylech may vary depending on use.

So we ask listeners to tell us about a time that

they did it, a time that they made a special you know coded mix for someone. People

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