Misusing Terms, Sex Ed, Etc
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
4.5 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 20 December 2021
⏱️ 90 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, deserve and listeners. It's just me today. It's coming up to the end of 2021 and I have all |
| 0:07.2 | these emails in my inbox that I want to answer because it's always been a goal of mine in this |
| 0:15.3 | podcast to answer every single email which back in the day was possible and now is I think possible. |
| 0:23.8 | Well, let's see. I think the key is is that I have to go very fast. I have to answer. |
| 0:30.0 | Not in my normal long-winded yammering fashion. So let's see if I can manage that. |
| 0:36.0 | This first email is from Patron Jeremiah. He writes, |
| 0:39.1 | how do you handle conversations when people are misusing clinical definitions such as gas |
| 0:44.9 | sliding or narcissist? I'm a new patron and have greatly appreciated your insight on these |
| 0:50.0 | commonly misused clinical terms. I have recently noticed that my wife is is using terms such as |
| 0:55.9 | narcissist and gas sliding to describe people who are mistreating her. I am a therapist and have |
| 1:01.1 | seen real cases of gas sliding and narcissism. And while my wife's mistreatment is real, |
| 1:07.8 | it is not gas sliding and the people do not have narcissistic personality disorder. She will often |
| 1:13.3 | ask what I think and will get angry and feel invalidated when I explained that her mistreatment |
| 1:19.2 | is distressing. I don't believe she is being gaslit or dealing with narcissistic personality |
| 1:24.5 | disorder individuals end of email. Yeah. Well, I've talked about this a lot. I'll probably talk |
| 1:29.7 | about it again at some point. But the other phrase that is often misuses love bombing. So we have |
| 1:36.4 | gas sliding. And they're often used on the same people. That person was that person gaslit me. |
| 1:43.1 | They love bombing me and they were a narcissist. They're a malignant narcissist or whatever it is. |
| 1:47.6 | And how do we how do you handle conversations? Well, I think that the first thing I can say is that |
| 1:53.2 | listen to all my episodes on gas sliding on narcissism on love bombing because it's pretty |
| 1:59.1 | nuanced. And I go into detail on how I think words change definitions change. Is that okay? Is it not |
| 2:08.5 | okay? You know, there's arguments you can make on other side. I would prefer if we don't change |
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