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Life Changing

Missing the bus

Life Changing

BBC

Personal Journals, Society & Culture

4.6735 Ratings

🗓️ 18 December 2024

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

Dan Edozie was brought up by his mother in London, moving between council accommodation and so constantly shifting from one school to another. He didn't know his father. It was a disrupted childhood that would become even more stressful when they tried to settle with Nigerian relatives in the United States. After unsuccessful trips to New York and Boston, mother and son tried a third time to settle in Los Angeles. Dan had just turned 12.

Life wasn't easy. They outstayed their Visa leading to a life on the fringes of society. Dan learned how to pan-handle, to beg for money to get extra food. They slept where they could, sometimes on public transport, sometimes in the refuges of the city's infamous Skid Row.

Fearing deportation back to the UK they set off at one point for Florida to stay with another distant relative. The journey came to a halt in El Paso when a passport check exposed their illegal status. Before leaving for the UK they returned to LA, continuing their fragile life. Then one day, Dan had an argument with his mother. She had made plans to stay at another refuge a bus journey away. Dan was hungry and although his mother wouldn't stop for him he went ahead and got some food at a nearby refuge centre. When he caught up with her, she was on a bus. Bewildered, he watched as the bus pulled away from a nearby bus stop and headed out of town.

Although he had a good idea where she was going, Dan decided to take things into his own hands. He started to look for a place for the night. He was twelve years old, with no ID, no money and only a large black bin-bag containing his clothes. After being turned down by two refuges, a lady at a third started asking all the right questions. How old was he? Why was he on his own? She knew something needed to be done. The next 24 hours saw Dan scooped up by the US authorities. Within days, a foster home was found, and although he and his mother were in contact, a custody hearing went against her and for the first time in his life Dan found the stability he craved.

Life was never easy in his new home, but as he puts it 'he looked after business' at school and started to excel as a Basketball player. By the age of 16 he was in the top 50 players of his age group in California. Scholarships followed and eventually he was picked up by one of the top College teams - Iowa State. When he turned professional he decided to return to the UK and played for the Bristol Flyers for six years, before opening his own Basketball training Academy, where young people in the St Paul's area of Bristol get a chance to be inspired by a man who has worked his way up from nothing. The height of his Basketball career came when representing England in the Commonwealth Games.

He's still in touch with his mother, and he holds no malice towards her. His focus is on the future and the many things he'd like to achieve. But he looks back on that moment in Los Angeles when a young boy took control of his destiny and in doing so, changed his life forever.

Producer: Elaina Boateng

Transcript

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It was one of the deadliest days in mountaineering history.

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Rock falls, avalanches.

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Huge pieces of ice. All are big enough to kill you.

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He just flew out into Devoid and he was gone.

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How did it all go so wrong?

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And is it really worth risking death to feel alive? Why would

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somebody pay to go to a place called the death cell on a vacation? Extreme, peak danger. With me,

0:29.9

Natalia Melman Petrazella. Listen to the full series now. First on BBC Sounds. BBC Sounds, music, radio, podcasts.

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You're about to listen to the latest series of Life-changing.

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Episodes will be released weekly wherever you get your podcasts.

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But if you're in the UK, you can listen to the latest episodes first on BBC Sounds.

0:54.5

Hello, and welcome to the series that hears from people who've had an extraordinary moment

0:59.3

that's fundamentally changed who they are and how they see the world.

1:04.4

Today, Danny Dozy.

1:06.6

Now, I don't want to tell you too much about Dan before we hear from him.

1:10.9

Safe to say where he is now is a very long way from where he started.

1:16.4

And that his transformative moment happened before he had even reached his teenage years.

1:23.7

Dan's here. Hi.

1:25.0

Hello.

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It is very good to see you.

1:27.9

I just noticed when we were chatting before the microphone started, you've got a sort of mid-Atlantic

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