So let's dive in um I so I want to start because I love in the beginning she lays out like her

dream plan for me just 20 to 29. She's like I want to be doing this and I'll be married by

this age in that page. Did you have one of those and like do you remember what it was and like

why are you at all now? I had a new one every day. I wanted to be a horse trainer. I want to be

veterinarian. I wanted to be a dermatologist. I wanted to be a trophy wife. I wanted to be all

kind of times. My career moved all over the place. All over. And as soon as I saw Sex and the City,

I wanted to be Samantha. And that's it for a while. Okay, PR. You studied PR and that was my major

vocalizations now. Okay. Yeah, I was until very recently. I was on the stage. You were very

yeah, a lot of Samantha's ones. And then did you similar like I want to be married by this age?

I would have kids my first 100% ridiculous, especially for when we went to school. I was

said by the 27 that I was going to have a baby married on my way to a mayor renting on a beach house

for the summer. By 27. By 27 year old black woman. What the hell is going on? Knowing I couldn't do

math. Knowing and well, I could not do math or science. That is the only town where a black woman

can get to a beach house by 27 or 27 engineer or a doctor or you go to Porsche route. Okay,

they can you find yourself a rich African. Nobody in these rich African streets.

I find you a rich African. Yep. Yep. Yep. Yep. But yeah, ridiculous. Absolutely absurd. So

I would love to write mine because I think they'd be fun and it would take up like 30 pages.

So what about you? Definitely. I mean, to realize, I mean, we all had these impossible

ridiculous things. Career wise, I always, for most of my life, it was like communication,

journalism, film, TV, entertainment, like something in that realm. Senior years when I like

veered off and I was like, fuck those, I'm doing education instead. But career wise, it never

changed too much. It's always like writing, communications, something in that media. But then

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