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That's OMGS.com. Mass shootings inevitably leave us with questions.

What led this particular individual to act out in such a hateful and destructive way?

Were they mentally ill?

And why didn't anybody see this violence coming in time to do something to

prevent it? As it turns out, there is a warning sign that somehow remains hidden in plain sight.

Before they wreak havoc with their guns, some 60% of mass shooters have committed domestic or

intimate partner abuse. From KERA in Dallas, this is think.

I'm Chris Boyd.

My guest, Cynthia Miller Idris, is a sociologist and professor in the School of Public

Affairs and the School of Education at American University, where she is founding director

of the Polarization and Extremism Research and Innovation Lab.

And she argues that if we want a safer society, we have to

recognize and address the strong links between patriarchy, white supremacy, homophobia, xenophobia,

and mass violence. Her book is called Man Up, the new misogyny and the rise of violent extremism.

Cynthia, welcome to think. Thanks. Thanks so much for having me.

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