MINISERIES: | Can High Standards Hurt Your Dating Life? The Intentional Romantic | Dating Personality Types

Heart of Dating

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🗓️ 9 July 2025

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Today we’re diving into the world of dating personalities as Kait and JJ unpack what it means to be the “intentional romantic”—aka the walking green flag—and explore both the strengths and pitfalls of this healthiest dating style! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz We're taking a podcast break but we don't want to leave you hanging! Listen to our most popular episodes here! https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLqTXjJK0vgrpQSRKU0oLGrSi2bo-xFcGJ Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast Come hang with us on the gram: http://instagram.com/heartofdating http://instagram.com/kaitness https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en . . . . . Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	At the end of my dating journey, I was the intentional romantic, yes.
0:04.0	Okay. Ironically, when you met.
0:06.0	You.
0:08.0	Yeah, you were pretty perfect, weren't you?
0:10.0	If you are the intentional romantic, your nickname is actually the walking green flag.
0:14.0	So if you scored that, then congratulations, because that's everybody's dream nickname is to be the walking green flag.
0:21.2	If someone's an intentional romantic, because that doesn't always equal healthy.
0:24.4	Right.
0:24.9	They are very observant.
0:26.7	They look into a lot of things.
0:29.3	And the challenge with that is they can be overly discerning.
0:32.6	So we want to find somebody who is committed to growing and healing.
0:37.2	That's important. But you don't need to look for
0:39.6	somebody who has every single thing perfect, just like you seemingly have everything so, quote,
0:45.4	perfect. I think the one thing I appreciate about the intentional romantic the most is
0:49.8	their love story has been downgraded from the main plot of their life to the subplot of their life.
1:08.8	Kate, what if dating could feel peaceful, serene, calming, exciting? Does that sound like a fantasy or something that, you know, is actually attainable?
1:19.0	Honestly, that sounds like bliss. And for some people out there, that is truly possible. Is that crazy?
1:26.3	Yeah. Was that your dating story ever? At the end of my dating
1:30.3	journey, I was the intentional romantic, yes. Okay. Ironically, when you met. You. Yeah, you were pretty
1:38.4	perfect, weren't you? You know, someone who's an intentional romantic, they take dating seriously,
1:43.2	not because they're intense,
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