Welcome. I'm Connor Beaton and today we are going to talk about surrendering to the unfolding of life.

And this is a little bit more esoteric than maybe usual. But I'm going to read a poem by Charles Bikowski.

I got a lot of feedback from you, the listeners. Thank you so much for

reaching out to me on Instagram and through Facebook and letting me know how much you really loved

the reading of some of the past poems and pieces that I have brought into the mini-episodes.

So I'm going to read another poem by Charles Bikowski today called Let It Unfold You.

Just before I do, just before I dive in, I just wanted to let everyone know that we have released

the first men's weekend of 2020. It's live. It is almost half sold. So please head on over.

If you have been thinking about joining us at one of the men's weekends and diving in, we do a lot of shadow work. One of the specialties that I really bring to the table is working with men on what's sabotaging them. So we work on sex and intimacy. We work on mindset. We dive into finding a deeper sense of purpose. It is always a phenomenal, phenomenal group of men. If you have been to the men's

weekend, don't forget to man it forward and share it with the guy. It goes a long way to,

you know, helping to change the lives of the men that are around you.

It also makes a great Christmas present. I've had a lot of women reach out and wanting to

get it for their, for their husband or for their partner, for their brother. By all means,

the guys really love it. And I've had a lot of guys that have come out to the weekends that

really, you know, get it as a present and then are hesitant, but then show up and have the absolute time of their life.

So if you have any questions, go to mantops.com, check out the men's weekends or you can go to Connor Beaten.com and check out the men's weekends.

So we are going to sell out quickly.

So I hope that you join us in Vancouver,

and it'll be in March of 2020. So with that housekeeping out of the way, let's dive in. And I

chose this poem because it is a very interesting reminder of how in life we are resistant to change.

We are actually, I did an episode with a guy named Bo Lotto, probably about two years ago.

And it was all about the neuroscience of change.

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