Welcome to the midweek mini episode.

So what's the fastest way to get out of scarcity?

This is something that I have grappled with for years.

And it's something that I've talked to many, many people about.

You know, there's a lot of research.

Carol Dweck has written a great book called Mindset about fixed versus growth mindset.

There's a lot of research that's out there about the fixed mindset and the growth mindset

and that you can't actually shift from one to the other.

But one of the main principles of a fixed mindset is that it's very scarcity based.

And we have scarcity when it comes to things like connection, when it comes to things like financial

abundance or being able to actively pursue our dreams and our ambitions. We have scarcity

when it comes to what we believe the future holds for us. Or we have scarcity when it comes to sex and intimacy

within a relationship. And so scarcity can show up in a multitude of ways. And one of the,

one of the most important things that I've seen when it comes to scarcity.

I actually witnessed this the other day.

I'm going to give you a really brief example.

It's something that I really struck me.

The other day, about a month ago, my wife, Vienna and I launched a seven-day relationship

reset, and we had over 10,000 people sign up for this reset.

It was free content, and we were just giving it away. And we said, hey, you know, here's some of

the basic pillars. Please, you know, go through this with us and, and do whatever you can in in in whatever time

it takes you to do that and the response was great it was absolutely amazing we had a ton of people

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