It's Sophia Franklin and you are listening to Sophia with an F, but I think I'm in the mood for a quickie.

Best case, all of your obsessing actually turned out to be a form of manifesting.

And Home Boy wants to meet up a couple months go by and he ends it once again.

Worst case scenario is you're like I'm just going to stalk a bitch and show up everywhere he is a la baby

reindeer. Happy Monday I am using my deep dark sexy voice and I'm hoping the takeaway will be. It was half severe enough, half ASMR.

It's SOS time, save our sloots.

By the way, a lot of you guys

DM me on a regular basis.

And I do read them I do try to respond but you're gonna have a way better chance of me

responding if you write in your questions to the anonymous forum.

And hey, if you don't want to be anonymous, you can add to whatever you write in your Instagram handle social security number first and last name and where I can find you and your phone number and hey maybe I'll give you a little ring a ding ding

ding call you right back and we can discuss the question further on the phone

where do you go to anonymously write me you can go to anonymously write me you can go to the Instagram pod page and there is a

highlight reel titled SOS you can also go to the description of this episode and if you scroll

down you will see a right in here link. But without further ado, question number one.

Dear Sophia, I was in a situation ship for four months.

He ended it because he can't commit. I want him back and I keep

obsessing over it and can't stop. I want to get back out there but can't stop thinking

about him so what do I do?

Well, honey, you can sedate yourself, you can numb yourself,

you could get a voodoo doll, you could ruminate and continue ruminating as you've been doing

until you get an answer because that's always how rumination works.

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