Mindset Shifts To Change Your Dating Life
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 4 July 2023
⏱️ 44 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, we're breaking down how to approach dating in a less anxiety-producing way. We discuss mindset shifts and reframes for dating app usage, going on first dates, texting, and assessing feelings. We end on a well-needed reminder that yes, dating is hard and no, you're not crazy.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:04.8 | Hey guys, it's Alana and welcome back to another episode of Seeing Other People. |
| 0:10.1 | Together, we're navigating modern dating alongside experts and real-life daters who are sharing their stories. |
| 0:16.1 | Don't have a date for tonight? No problem. Come learn, laugh, and maybe even cry along with us as we navigate the |
| 0:22.1 | dating scene together. Hey guys, it's Lana and welcome back for another episode of seeing other |
| 0:27.7 | people. We have a solo episode today because you guys have been writing in that you are loving |
| 0:33.1 | them. So I love that. That makes me so happy. Thank you for stroking my ego. I will continue to bring you guys to more solo episodes. |
| 0:40.3 | Before we get into the crux of what we're going to talk about today, I need to address the fact that it is absolutely positively at shit crazy that I am doing this recording right now. |
| 0:50.6 | It is 6.14 p.m. on a Friday night. I have had the most bizarre, |
| 0:57.7 | frustrating, exhausting day. Woke up at 7.30. Barkley's been sick all week. I also have been sick |
| 1:04.4 | all week, of course. woke up to Barkley being sick at 730. Ended up going for a really long |
| 1:10.4 | walk with him at that time, which I never go for walks at 730, ended up going for a really long walk with him at that time, |
| 1:12.1 | which I never go for walks at 730. I don't wake up at 730. It's like not a thing I do. |
| 1:17.8 | But today I was awake. It was so beautiful. And I was just like so enjoying how calm and |
| 1:23.8 | peaceful and quiet it was. And the fact that I was on this nice walk and I'm like, |
| 1:27.7 | wow, I start debating, do I want to become a morning person? Like, is morning Alana a thing of the |
| 1:33.8 | future? And as I'm debating that, I see this tiny little baby bird, like sitting on the edge of a |
| 1:40.2 | sidewalk pressed up against the wall. And every single time somebody passed the baby bird, |
| 1:45.3 | it like tried to dig itself into the wall. Like you could tell it was so scared. And I need to preface |
| 1:51.3 | this with a little fun fact about me that most of you definitely don't know. While I am a dog |
| 1:57.3 | mom now, my childhood was actually about being a bird girl. Like, you know, there are |
| 2:04.6 | horse girls. They're like cat people, dog people. No, like, we were bird people. I think I had |
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