Microjoys: Finding Hope When Life’s Not Okay | Cyndie Spiegel
Good Life Project
Jonathan Fields / Acast
4.5 • 3.4K Ratings
🗓️ 27 February 2023
⏱️ 62 minutes
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Summary
Have you ever had a moment or experience, maybe even an entire season of life that was so hard, so filled with struggle and, maybe even, grief, loss and uncertainty, that the very idea of feeling or accessing any kind of big or meaningful or sustained happiness or joy just completely left you? Yeah, we’ve all been there on some level.
But, what if, even in those moments where the big happy, or the big joy just isn’t accessible, there was still a way to dip into fleeting moments of lightness, or what my dear friend and guest today, Cyndie Spiegel, calls microjoys? One that gives you just enough of a glimmer of hope and connection, ease and maybe even laughter, that it keeps you going long enough to begin to emerge back into a state of more sustained spaciousness and possibility?
Cyndie is a beloved storyteller-turned-writer and an igniter of power conversation whose new book, Microjoys: Finding Hope (Especially) When Life Is Not Okay, is a revelation. She first began holding on to what she calls microjoys during a devastating season that saw her mom pass from cancer, her nephew murdered, her brother struggling to recover from a stroke, and her own diagnosis of cancer, all while navigating a global pandemic. That’s what we’re diving into today, both the notion of microjoys, along with myriad ways to access these moments and experiences.
You can find Cyndie at: Website | Dear Grown Ass Women | Instagram
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| 0:00.0 | Micrature is really came to be about honing the ability to find joy, in spite of everything else. |
| 0:07.2 | Grieving doesn't need to be one way. |
| 0:10.0 | The sort of foundation of microjoices about learning to hold joy in one hand and grief in the other, |
| 0:16.2 | at any particular moment. |
| 0:18.1 | Fall to your knees heartbreak, but also joy that is bigger than you've ever known possible, |
| 0:23.0 | and sometimes you will experience that in the same breath. |
| 0:26.7 | And what grace it is to allow ourselves to feel that. |
| 0:32.6 | So have you ever had a moment or experience, maybe an entire season of life that was just so |
| 0:38.4 | hard, so filled with struggle and maybe even grief, loss and uncertainty, that the very idea of |
| 0:45.6 | feeling or accessing any kind of big or meaningful or sustained happiness or joy, it just completely left you. |
| 0:54.4 | And those well-intended folks around you who try to refocus your heart in mind on the good things and |
| 0:59.6 | the gratitude it actually just kind of made you feel even worse. |
| 1:03.2 | Because the darkness, the struggle you were navigating, was so far beyond what simple advice and |
| 1:09.6 | platitudes could even begin to help. It would have all been there on some level. |
| 1:14.9 | But what if even in those moments where the big happy or the big joy just is inaccessible? |
| 1:21.4 | There was still a way to dip into fleeting moments of lightness or what my dear friend and guest |
| 1:26.6 | today, Cindy Speagle calls, micro-joys. One that gives you just enough of a glimmer of hope and |
| 1:33.3 | connection, ease and maybe even laughter that it keeps you going long enough to begin to emerge |
| 1:39.0 | back into a state of more sustained and spacious possibility. So Cindy is a speaker and best-selling |
| 1:45.0 | author, founder of the social community, Dear Growness Women, a beloved storyteller turned writer |
| 1:51.0 | and an igniter of power conversation who has been featured in publications like Forbes, |
| 1:55.8 | Entrepreneur Glamour and more. Her new book, MicroJoyce, Finding Hope, especially when life is not |
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