"First Communion is about far more than a single day—it's about nurturing a lifelong relationship with Jesus." - Katie McGrady

 

Summary

Preparing your child for First Communion or Reconciliation can feel overwhelming—but what if it's actually an invitation for your own faith to grow?

In this episode, we sit down with authors and speakers Tommy and Katie McGrady to talk about why parents are the most important influence in their children's spiritual lives. They share why sacramental preparation isn't just about checking a box—it's about helping children encounter Jesus in a personal way. We discuss simple ways parents can start today: talking openly about faith, recognizing Jesus in everyday moments, and even being honest when you don't have all the answers.

The beautiful surprise? When parents walk with their children toward the sacraments, they often rediscover their own faith along the way.  This episode will encourage you, equip you, and remind you—you don't have to be perfect to lead your children to Christ.

Key Takeaways

• Children who have a personal faith by middle school are much more likely to keep the faith than those who see mass simply as an obligation. 

• Parents must have conversations with their kids about why the faith is important to them personally. 

• Develop small tangible ways of recognizing Jesus' presence such as the sign of the cross when passing a church. 

• It's ok to say to your children, "I don't know, let's figure it out" 

• Vulnerability with your children about your own faith journey is key. 

• Preparing a child for the sacraments helps parents also to see them in a new way and appreciate the gift that they are.

 

Couple Discussion Questions

• What do you remember about your sacrament prep?  What do you wish had been done differently?  

• How do you pray after communion?  How can we encourage our children to pray?