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Messy Family Podcast : Catholic Conversations on Marriage and Family

MFP 184: Creating a Safe Place to Make Mistakes

Messy Family Podcast : Catholic Conversations on Marriage and Family

Mike and Alicia Hernon : Catholic Marriage Parent and Family

Parenting, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Kids & Family

4.9841 Ratings

🗓️ 4 April 2022

⏱️ 66 minutes

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Summary

"Instead of trying to protect yourself through your fear, learn to live dangerously! – by doing and saying what you think, know, and believe to be right, by not caring that you may be mistaken at times" 

~ Dr. Conrad Barrs, Born Only Once: the Miracle of Affirmation

Unfortunately, we live in a Pinterest-perfect, commercialized, consumerist culture that is looking for the top of the line in everything.  What happens when that attitude bleeds into our parenting? How does it affect our kids when we start demanding perfection from them instead of delighting in who they are?  In this podcast, we dive into the concept of "affirmation" and examine how essential it is that our children receive affirmation from us.  When a person is affirmed, they are not afraid to take risks, to be vulnerable, or to fail.  They know they are loved for who they are, not what they do.  They are delighted in and they know it.  Childhood should be a process of a person receiving these messages from their parent so they can become who they were born to be. Listen in as we discuss the effects of affirmation, practical ways to affirm children, and what affirmation is NOT.  The reference for this podcast is the book Born Only Once, by Dr. Conrad Barrs.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the messy family podcast.

0:06.7

Catholic Conversations on Marriage and Family.

0:10.8

Hosted by our parents, Mike Hernan and Alicia Hornin.

0:15.8

They're pretty awesome, but they're not experts.

0:18.6

Because family life is really messy.

0:24.1

Hello. but they're not excellent because family life is really messy. Hello, messy families.

0:26.3

It is a beautiful day in the neighborhood.

0:30.0

I am glad you're in for this conversation that we're going to have today.

0:35.0

Absolutely.

0:35.8

It's going to be some fun, but it's actually one of those topics that I think is so huge

0:42.0

and so important for parents.

0:43.4

And it really was sparked by a listener.

0:45.1

So we're excited to talk about that.

0:47.1

Before we get into today's topic.

0:48.6

We're excited to talk about failure.

0:50.6

Yay.

0:51.3

No, no, no.

0:53.1

Well, yes, but no. No, it's more than that.

0:54.2

No.

0:55.6

But it is.

0:56.6

It's huge.

0:57.7

But we do have a couple quick announcements here.

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