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The Iced Coffee Hour

Mental Health Expert: The #1 Secret To Achieving ANYTHING You Want | Dr. John Delony

The Iced Coffee Hour

Graham Stephan/Jack Selby

Entrepreneurship, Business

4.6 • 679 Ratings

🗓️ 21 April 2024

⏱️ 158 minutes

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0:00.0

Why do you think people are struggling so much today?

0:02.2

Anxiety's on the rise. Depression is on the rise.

0:04.7

A lot of unhappy marriages and relationships.

0:07.0

We've pathologized human experience.

0:09.0

The number of students over the years would come sit in my office and say, my dad passed away, my granddad passed away.

0:14.0

My dad just moved out on my mom.

0:15.4

My mom cheated on my dad.

0:16.8

And I'm depressed.

0:18.3

And I would often say, no, you're not.

0:20.1

You're really sad. We just have so many duct tapes and pills and alternative whatever instead of just teaching people

0:26.6

how to sit in grief.

0:27.6

You have to act differently.

0:28.6

You have to change the things that you do on a daily basis.

0:31.6

You can't just think your way into being healthy.

0:34.6

You have to change how you live.

0:36.6

Just created a world that our bodies can't live in,

0:38.3

man. We've created a disaster. John Deloney, thank you so much for coming on, the iced coffee hour.

0:44.4

You have a really interesting story. See, you did crisis negotiation for a very long time.

0:48.7

What was the one call that still stands out to you this day?

0:51.2

I did crisis response for years with police departments and with my

0:55.4

students. The one that comes to mind when you asked that question was a year or two ago. On the Dave

1:00.6

Ramsey show, Dave and his daughter Rachel Cruz were taking a call from a woman who was asking

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